Libby Doe

There is a common trope about beautiful women that they are dumb, ignorant, or not very useful. This is an unfortunate stereotype, but it exists like so many other stereotypes because it is true more often than not.

Beautiful women, particularly in modern times, have been able to pass through life without facing the realities that average women have to deal with. Beautiful women get all sorts of benefits in life and are often able to move through life without struggling as much as those without the blessing of good looks.

Now, this is not to say that all beautiful women have had an easy life. Not hardly. On the contrary, many beautiful women come from abusive backgrounds, where they were molested, attacked, or abandoned. All of this ultimately leads them to have a low self-esteem and ultimately turn to the use of their beauty as their only way out of life’s pain that was delivered unto them.

Unfortunately, this often leads to a reality amongst many beautiful women that can be summed up in two overriding characteristics among them:

1. They are generally not as academically advanced as their less beautiful contemporaries.
2. They are generally much more emotionally weak.

Now the fact that they are not academically advanced does not mean that they are stupid. Many beautiful women are intelligent, but they are usually less intelligent or educated than their peers who don’t have the blessing of physical beauty. And this often creates bitterness and envy amongst their peers.

Now, an emotionally weak woman is one who can be described as fully capable of experiencing life as a set of fickle feelings and emotions while being completely unable to control those same emotions. I know this sounds like most women, but beautiful women, particularly in modern times, seem to be more heavily afflicted with emotional weakness.

Furthermore, an emotionally weak woman who has been indoctrinated with feminism will never be able to see her own errors. She will never see herself as wrong. And when she finally sees her errors, she will make excuses for them or defend herself for making them, thus preventing her from ever truly acknowledging her errors. And without recognition of sin, there is no repentance. So an emotionally weak woman with feminist indoctrination is like a runaway freight train who is destined to crash and bring all sorts of destruction with her. And when the inevitable crash happens, she’ll still never see her as being at fault. She’ll blame the engine, or the rails, or the conductor, or the weather, or the engineers; but one thing she will never do is admit that she was wrong.

You see this type of woman is hurt and damaged from her life’s history. She may or may not have confidence in her own beauty, even though she has used her beauty to her advantage for years. But she’s hurt. And she has spent her life trying to defend herself and protect her feelings because of her own lack of self-confidence. So she only knows how to fight in order to protect her own feelings. And this is one of the greatest traits of an emotionally weak woman: she is always contentious. She’s always fighting, nagging, whining, complaining, (or forgive the term if you find it offensive or crude), but she’s always bitching about something. There’s a reason why that harsh word is applied to women exclusively, and that’s why I used it and highlighted it, even though it is generally not comely for a Christian woman to use such a term. But I did so intentionally, to highlight a reality that is very ugly amongst us women.

Ultimately, this reality is why it is called “emotional weakness.” Previous generations of godly women were mentally weaker but emotionally stronger. In other words, they might not have been as “educated” as modern women, but they knew what their place was. They knew how to be a woman. They knew what their relationship should be with their husbands. They knew how to treat their husbands and therefore would receive the love, care, and cherishing that we women all desire. Go back and watch “Father Knows Best” or “Leave it to Beaver” and you will find examples of women who were less “educated” than modern women but emotionally much stronger and stable than women today.

You see, feminism has ruined modern day women in ways that will likely be impossible to explain or unpack. We are all so inculcated and indoctrinated with these sick feminist belief systems that they have become personality traits and habits. And traits and habits are very hard to undo.

So while it is true that women have always had a negative nature about us, and we have always been inclined to be argumentative, contentious, dramatic, and cruel; modern day women who have grown up in the post-feminist era are more uniquely habit prone to these things. In fact, modern day women are more prone to fight with their husbands over nothing than ever before in history. And nowhere can this be more damaging than in the relationship with a Strong Man. And that is for the following two reasons:

1. A Strong Man generally won’t put up with your nonsense. And this just causes the cycle to continue more furiously until it ultimately brings total destruction. "Regular" guys just let their wives act crazy and run them over. But a Strong Man does not. Trying to rule over a Strong Man is as futile as kicking against the pricks (Acts 26:14).
2. You are hindering the world by hindering your Strong Man. He was called by God to save the world in some way. He has a calling to help and heal the world, but he can’t get past his own wife. So either you will destroy his potential or you will destroy him. But as long as you stay an unrepentant, contentious woman, you will create an untold amount of destruction that only eternity can describe.

The point in all of this is simple: it is time to overcome and to stop being an emotionally weak woman. And that is what the rest of this book is all about. Are you ready? Let's go…