The dynamic between modern day Strong Men and modern, feminist indoctrinated, emotionally weak women, is truly an unfortunate one. Honestly, I don’t think that the reality we have today is by accident. In fact, I know it is on purpose. “An enemy has done this.” (Matthew 13:28).

So where we are at today is that we have created a society where the principles of feminism have risen above common sense and likewise above Biblical principles so much, that the vast majority of Christian women, myself included, exhibit and demonstrate on a daily basis, the lifestyle, actions, and attitude of full blown feminists.

This makes us absolutely horrible wives. It also makes us horrible Christians. But worst of all, for those of us who are married to Strong Men, it makes us the greatest and strongest hindrance to the Kingdom of God, as we are solely responsible for stopping God’s Strong Men from doing exploits (Daniel 11:32) and advancing God’s Kingdom in this Earth.

THERE WAS A TIME WHEN BEAUTIFUL WOMEN KNEW THEIR PLACE

The problem is that beautiful women don’t know their place anymore. They no longer know how to be meek and quiet (1 Peter 3:4) or how to be gracious or thankful to be married to a great and Strong Man. Nowadays, women are just bitter, cruel, contentious, and constantly argumentative; taking their marriage to their husbands as a competition where they constantly feel inferior and are constantly striving to prove that they are better than their husbands (or at least better than what they think their husbands think of them).

In other words, some women realize they are not at their husband’s level so they don’t necessarily try to compete directly with them. But they, for example, may think that their husbands view them as being a level 50 wife, so they fight forever to try to prove that they are a level 75, or even 100. And so what is the fruit of that? Well, it’s constant bickering, complaining, contentions, whining, and fighting. It is emotionally exhausting for both husband and wife, but it is mostly damaging to the husband because he can’t fix his wife’s problems because she refuses to change. She just keeps going back into this endless cycle of fighting and defending herself even though her husband was not attacking her.

It’s interesting because the Bible itself tells us in Proverbs 28:1 that “The wicked flee when no one pursues.” And this is much like an emotionally weak woman. She flees from her husband (she acts defensively), even though her husband was not “pursuing,” or attacking her.

WHEN YOU MARRY YOUNG

If you got married young, this can also exacerbate the problem and create a heavy amount of disparity between a Strong Man and an emotionally weak woman. You see, the weak woman generally never grows past the emotional immaturity of her youth. Yes, we women get older and wiser with experience, but we generally maintain the same emotional immaturity that we always had (which we usually learned as a habit from our mothers). But the Strong Man who got married young was still in the infancy of his strength. He will generally get stronger and stronger and will not reach full capacity until his 30s (just like Jesus did not begin his ministry until he was 30). So this creates a tremendous amount of disparity. In short, the Strong Man gets stronger and the emotionally weak woman gets left behind, creating a wider and wider gap between the two of them.

And here is where the problem lies; modern day women are more inclined to this type of negative behavior, and beautiful women, are that much more likely to be extremely weak in this regard. So the absolute worst person that an emotionally weak woman should ever marry is a Strong Man because the polarity between them will be too great. It’s like a midget playing basketball with Goliath. Or like a 3rd grader trying to fight for intellectual supremacy against Solomon. It will not work and it will only frustrate both parties that are involved.

But that’s the whole problem! Emotionally weak women are the worst type of women for Strong Men. Yet Strong Men often select emotionally weak women, because they are beautiful!

Strategically speaking it was a brilliant move on behalf of the enemy. He knew that the only thing that could stop his onward march into the destruction of godly fruit in this world would be Strong Men. And he knew that Strong Men exclusively only select beautiful women. So all the enemy had to do was to change beautiful women from being naturally loving, meek, and quiet (who would therefore make wonderful wives and helpmeets to their Strong Man husbands), into being emotionally weak, contentious, sociopaths, hell-bent on destroying their husbands in order to preserve their own feelings.

And the strategy worked! So now we have feminism as a part of society, and the most beautiful amongst us seem to often be the worst examples of this destructive spirit.

So while it seems like a hopeless scenario, I have very good and positive news. That news is this: you have the power, all by yourself, precious lady, to fix everything! You have the power to fix this problem and you can fix it all overnight. Literally, overnight! It doesn’t take forever. You simply have to repent. You simply have to stop fighting as if you’re defending yourself against an attack. Stop being contentious. Stop the bickering, the yelling, the frustration, the whining, the complaining, and the loudness. Just repent and stop all of it immediately.

You literally just have to repent and become a meek and quiet woman (1 Peter 3:4). That’s it. Just do that and do it now, and the rest of your life will be bliss. You can do this. You have to do this. Your husband, your children, and ultimately the world, are counting on you to do get it done!